Our book is now available for purchase! Asking each other these open-ended questions before you say I Do will help prepare you for a healthy and happy marriage.

 
 

THIS BOOK INCLUDES

A question a day to ask your spouse
Our 'Feelings Words List' to help you communicate more clearly
A list of phrases that express empathy
Tips to make the most of the book
Blank pages to take notes

TOPICS

Sex & Intimacy • Conflict & Repair • Friendship
Self-awareness • Career & Money • Communication
Childhood & Family • Boundaries • Holidays
Pregnancy & Parenting • Spirituality • Past Relationships
... and some questions are just for fun!

HOW IT WORKS

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ASK QUESTIONS BY DATE

For each day of the year, there is one Connecting Questions to ask your spouse. Take turns asking the question listed! Don't worry: You don't need to start on January 1 - any day is a great day to start.

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COVER A SPECIFIC TOPIC

If there is a specific area you want to work on in your marriage, pick a question by topic using the index in the back. Topics include: sex & intimacy, conflict, friendship, repairing, money, communication, boundaries, holidays & more!

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USE THE BONUS MATERIAL

This book includes a question a day to ask your fiancé as well as helpful bonus material including our Feelings Words List to help you communicate more clearly and questions for those who have been married before.

 
 

WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING

If you can’t afford premarital counseling, you have to buy this book!
This book will make you laugh, cry and fall more in love with your fiancé.
My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years and thought we knew everything about each other until we went through the questions in your book. It’s exactly what we needed to take our relationship to the next level.
I am a marriage and family therapist and I specialize in pre-marital education. I ended buying two dozen copies to give to my clients so they can prepare for marriage and they are loving it and it’s been helping me guide my sessions with them. This is a must read book for all engaged couples.
We were gifted the book at our engagement party and I set it aside at first. But then we started flipping through the questions and ended up talking for hours. We love this book and get excited to pull it out.
My fiancé and I have had some issues with our communication and this book has helped us feel understood and validated like never before. Thank you Casey and Meygan! This book rocks.